365 Coaching Tips: 319th, 320th & 321st

November 15th Coaching Tip: Witness History.

When you think history making moments are going to happen, plan to go. It might be a once in a lifetime moment. That indeed was the situation today, as our Indiana University Hoosier football team played their last home game of the season, only to set three records: IU now has the longest home game winning streak (15 games), the quarterback (Fernando Mendoza) threw his 30th touchdown pass, and IU is 11-0 (first time ever in program history).

A couple weeks ago, I could see this potentially happening, so I grabbed 16 tickets, and reached out to the fun friends in my life who would be up for seeing history be made. In no time, I had 16 friends agree to go to the game. We had a blast, laughing, eating, cheering, and celebrating our Hoosiers. Make those memories; plan and think ahead and involved those that you love and know how to have fun. Witness history together.

November 16th Coaching Tip: Big Week Ahead.

After a fun and record-breaking day yesterday, getting my rest was crucial for the big week ahead. Why such a big week? Lots of meetings this week and speaking nationally again. Prep for our early Thanksgiving dinner and my uncle is arriving and staying with us for four evenings. My partner and I went thru our calendars multiple times today and really discussed scenarios, when I would be where, what she needed to get done, and the what if’s. I’ve found that doing this on Sundays, while resting and refreshing, really keeps us on the same page. Talking it over with clarity, openness, and curiousity will help you all prep for the big weeks ahead.

November 17th Coaching Tip: Keep Reducing.

My word for the year was “Reduce.” Reduce the amount of food that I eat, reduce using plastics in my kitchen, reduce any work drama, reduce my weight. I did not really reduce my screen time (on my iPhone) and read more. However, starting December 1st, I’m going to drastically reduce my iPhone screen time on social media apps = Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and Tik Tok. Going to reduce intentionally for 31 days; I’m also going to recommit reducing the amount of food that I’m eating (I took a three-month break from September thru November) to reduce my weight by a few pounds before the new year begins.

I also reduced inside my homes; over the last couple of months, I opened cabinet and closet doors to make four decisions on organization: what needed to be donated, repurposed, thrown away, or utilized. For example, I had four small containers of mousse for my hair. Quickly I realized that two were not even working properly, so I threw them away; two more were useable and I have been using them. As we finished the remodeled home, I was able to repurpose items that were infrequently to now be purposefully utilized as key staples in that home. I’ve made multiple trips to Goodwill and have another big trip to do before yearend. Reduce has been a wonderful word for the year, and I’m doubling down on it in December.