365 Coaching Tips: on to 19, 20 and 21

January 19th Coaching Tip: Friends Matter. We’ve all heard that phrase, “Sunday Funday!” Today, we rolled out of bed, didn’t take showers, and started whipping up some gluten free pancake mix, baked some bacon, got the omelet ingredients all prepped, and set out the dishes for a scheduled brunch with our best friends. They rolled in with similar hairdo’s, and somehow beautifully displayed a colorful platter of fresh fruit and brought an old-school orange squeezer to make some orange juice for mimosas.  We had this brunch planned for a week, as temperatures were plummeting and we decided to stay inside instead of going to see a college basketball game.  Glad that we stay committed to our bond of having a homemade brunch.  Brunch was plentiful and scrumptious, the food and friends, the warmth of the fire, the catching up, as it had been a few weeks since we all had been together.  Recent research is indicating that people are spending more time alone; more time on social media than ever before; depression and anxiety are both on the rise; and mental illness is now commonly discussed.  My recipe for a lot of these trends is to have something to look forward to, and do it with people that you love and care about.  Planning a simple lil Sunday brunch while wearing zero makeup with bad hair, allowed us to naturally connect, cook, and share. Plan things with your friends.  Friends matter.

January 20th Coaching Tip: Leverage Experts. In tackling a huge remodel of a 95-year-old home, I realized that I needed experts.  The ceilings were bowing, the floors were not flat, the stairs were not safe, the house was chopped up, and we are adding a garage, as well as some new windows, siding and doors.   I needed help! Enter in a general contractor, an interior designer, and an architect.  In working together, them listening to me and what I want in this farmhouse, and then hearing them regarding their ideas, we are really bringing this project together nicely.  With the architect’s quick eye, he gave the GC some ideas on how to improve the bowed ceilings and the uneven floors.  It’s done already.  The interior designer is pushing us all on functionality as well as the latest fashions, with the right flow.  I’m grateful for smart people, who can work collaboratively. Embrace others and improve results by leveraging expertise.   

January 21st Coaching Tip: Keep On-Track.  In my coaching work, many of my colleagues/coachees set goals…and then they don’t track results frequently enough.  As they get in to March and move thru May, they are already telling themselves if they can or cannot make their yearend numbers.  For the teams that I coach who set a goal to accomplish their results by summer or no later than Labor Day, they typically do it. How? They track their results daily, and definitely weekly and monthly. Many people annually give up on their new year’s resolution between January 18-27, so now is the time to keep and stay on track. Develop yourself a daily or weekly scorecard, and you will be amazed what you can accomplish. Keep on-track!

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