In 2010, my father shared some wisdom at his and my mother’s 50th anniversary party: “Have someone to love, love what you do, and have something to look forward to.” Isn’t it best to embrace what your father says, right? Why? Because 424 million paid vacation days went un-used in America in 2012 (source: WSJ, 12/2012). In our house, we have a fun discussion at the beginning of every year to openly share our annual goals, complete with some yummy Reuben sandwiches. We find that this tradition really matters, including every single ingredient, all the way down to the type of mustard on the Reuben. To help ensure accountability, balance, and adjustments that might be necessary throughout the year, we have quick planning discussions every weekend that help us plan our meals, time for exercise, commitments to others (family, friends, and work), and future trips and vacations. Thanks to my Dad’s advice of “have something to look forward to”, we created some very special moments in 2012, centered on sports. Here’s just a few of them:
Super Bowl. One of our bucket list items was accomplished. Living in Indianapolis, why not go see one of your favorite teams play in Super Bowl XLVI? Plus, our dear friends, my parents, nieces and nephew, brother and sis-in-law came in to town to enjoy the festivities. Priceless memories made, even though our team lost.
Tennis. We are huge tennis fans and had not been to the US Open in New York City since the early 1990’s. When do you get the chance to see Roger Federer, Novak Djokovic and Venus Williams in the same day? Without any tickets, we jumped in the car and drove a couple hours to Cincinnati and saw them play. So worth it!
Indy 500. My family loves this Hoosier tradition; we have been to the Indy 500 for many years. But this year, I was given the opportunity to go around the Speedway track at a very fast speed. Why not, right? Wow, those were an few exhilarating minutes. Took me an hour to settle in, but I called my dad to tell him what I did; he was thrilled I got that opportunity. And, I got to meet and visit with Mario Andretti.
Golf. The PGA returned to The Crooked Stick Golf Club in Carmel, IN. Located just minutes from our place, I walked the course and watched former #1 Tiger Woods and current #1 Rory McIlroy play together. What a treat to see this, because the PGA announced that it also was the tournament of the year.
Boston in Philadelphia. We headed to Lehigh, PA for my cousin’s college graduation ceremony. Not only did we embrace the trip, we also went to see the Phillies vs. Red Sox and the 76ers vs. Celtics, and reconnected with a couple of friends. This renewed relationship is now beyond strong; we’ve already vacationed together and are planning another trip in 2013. My cousin was thankful beyond words, because we were there to see her graduate, through an outdoor ceremony in an absolute rain shower.
Half Marathon. Two of our best girl friends had never been up for running, but run we did. The six of us gals trained for this event (held here in Carmel) and we all finished. We proved we all could do it; the connection and strength gained by completing a difficult task further cemented our relationships. Oh, and then we ate and celebrated the rest of the weekend!
Foul Balls. As Red Sox fans, if they play at Wrigley, isn’t that a must do event? Well of course it is, and bring along your best friends (and their kids who have never been to Wrigley). And during the 5th inning, a foul ball heads our way, and yes, we grab it. What a memory that all of us will never forget, especially as we were telling stories around midnight at the IHOP by Wrigley Field.
Like most of us, we do a great job of planning our to-do lists and daily schedule for the kids’ activities and our work. Try a little self-assessment by asking these few questions: How well are you planning your life? What type of moments are you creating that will impact you and your family forever? What do you want your legacy to be? How will you implement accountability to plan your personal life as diligently as you do the rest of your life? Happy 2013!